Ellen DeGeneres afraid Portia de Rossi might leave her for a man?
Posted by Capri on August 2, 2006
Ellen Degeneres is terrified she may lose partner Portia De Rossi to a man.
The 48-year-old Emmy-winning comic — who swept De Rossi off her feet almost two years ago – is now worried that Portia will leave her for a guy the same way ex-lover Anne Heche did, sources say.
“Ellen’s so in love with Portia I think she’s afraid to be too happy,” a close friend told The ENQUIRER.
“She’s been burned before. Now she’s afraid it’s destined to happen again because Portia’s just so beautiful, and guys naturally come on to her all the time.”
Compounding the problem is that Ellen and Portia, 33, have a group of straight guy friends who kid Portia about “joining their team.”
One offender, according to the friend, is actor Jeremy Piven, who had a role on Ellen’s first sitcom and now stars on HBO’s Entourage. “He’s been friends with Ellen for years,” said the friend. “So Jeremy and his pals drop by Ellen and Portia’s place for card games and drinks.
“Ellen’s probably the funniest woman alive and people just naturally gravitate to her.
“And then she has this smoking-hot girlfriend — who’s also a blast to hang out with. And when their straight guy friends start kidding around about ’switching sides’ and ‘joining their team,’ Ellen knows it’s all about Portia and not her.
“She can put up with the joking for just so long.”. . . . . . . .Source via iBloid – The Internet Tabloid
maria said
i just love ellen de generes and i just hope that portia will always be true to her…ellen deserves the best and the right to be happy!!!
krisitine said
Ellen, is the most fabulous last i’ve ever encountered and she deserves to be really happy indeed. A beautiful person inside and out. Love has no boundaries and knows no gender. =)
katrina said
I hope this is not ture.i hope portia loves ellen.I hope she will not breack ellen heart.Ellen does not need to go thogth any moer pain.I WISH ELLEN AND PORTIA ALL THE BEST GOD BLESS THEM BOTH.love thier fan katrina
ALAN SMITH said
“WELL, ELLEN I SURE HOPE THAT YOU WON’T END UP LEAVING YOUR GIRLFRIEND , BUT WHEN YOUR FAMOUS THAT’S BOUND TO HAPPEN ? SO GOODLUCK TO YOU BOTH FROM ALAN . “
katrina said
Well Ellen and Portia good luck and may all your day have a smile and some sun shine,I hope you both reman good to each other.I hope ellen does not get her heart brock into a million little piceas…I wish them luck..dam hollywood
katrina said
Ellen needs that happens, does not needs to be un happy. I HAVE TO SAY THAT ELLEN LOOKS VERY HAPPY .they both look happy..
Robbyn said
Ellen be happy in the moment every day! If your lover is unfaithful, you will find more happiness. The world doesn’t begin or end with Portia, it didn’t end with Ann. I wish you all the happiness in the world. Ellen you are sensational.
Janet said
Ellen I think portia would be dumb to give you up for a stupid man. He will only hurt her in the long run and she’ll come running back to you.Good luck Ellen and I hope you will be happy in everything you do. You are just great and I love you alot.
Greg said
Maybe Ellen will learn not to gravitate toward women completely out of her league. They’re only using her for fame.
Tessa said
Just the other day me and a friend of mine were talking about the same thing during the “Ellen Show”. Ellen is such an awesome person and I sincerely hope that Portia appreciates her and doesn`t break her heart. She looks like a genuinely good person who won`t fool around with the person she loves. All the best of luck to them, and I hope they`re together always.
katrina said
GOD BLESS ELLEN DEGENERES AND PORTIA DEROSSI I WISH THEM ALL THE BEST…..
Brad said
Ellen, get over the fear. Face your fears and once you have over come these then and only then will you be happy. If you have something that you can bring to this unit, then fine but if not then she (Portia) will go looking if she is unfulfil. Plus I’m “hit that” any day and everyday, two maybe even three times a day. Can you dig it?
Romy said
Ellen, you just maybe way over your pay grade with Portia. Girl, Portia is flat out fine! I would “do her so good” she would never look back at another woman again. Ellen, if you are feeling a little shaky, I can appreciate that. Because to be truthful, I never really thought you had a shot with Portia from the get go. But this is what happens when money meets beautiful. Money tends to hang in there for a little while (in your case, longer because you got more money than most) but eventually money will lose out. So I suggest that you pick up your marlbes and go play some place else. Because Portia will go looking for the second brain of man. The Penis!
brianna said
listen ellen…..i hope you and portia work out i mean thats pretty fucked up if she leaves a abosolutly beautiful woman as yourself fro some guy…i have never seen a woman so beautiful in my life till i laid eyes on you and i wish you the best
~your loving fan,
brianna
BRAD said
Hi! Ellen, this is Brad (no not Brad P.) Ellen, you got game for an old woman. But Ms. Portia is live, girlfriend. I would seriously do her for you if you want her to stay with you. I figure you could pay me to be with Portia and that way she would stay with you for the money and get her daily allowance (man sex) from me! Think about it and if your see the logic in this, call me.
Elsie Francis-Bertrand said
Ellen, Get rid of or take control of those homophobic “friends” who are trying to destroy your relationship. They may not know that they are trying to destroy your relationship, but their humor is masked hostility. That is a psychiatric term for negative messages that mean disrespect and destructive intent given in the guise of being funny. It is pathological, at least neurotic. It is the kind of ‘humor’ that you do not appreciate or practice. Why do you accept it when directed at you and your partner?
Your tolerating this behavior from peers and your allowing them to frighten you is indicative of your self-deprecation and your own (internalized) homophobia. Oppressed groups always internalize the negative messages about themselves. It lessens you if you collude in allowing yourself to be treated this way.
Next, let me be honest. Portia may be glamourous and girlish (all done up), but you, Ellen, you are unique; your look is wholesome and real. Looking at Portia requires work to get a sense of what she looks like. If she were sitting next to me, I would not recognize her. Just another glamour girl–and not particularly healthy-looking. That is my opinion. If she is not secure in her lesbianism, this is not a time to let yourself be exposed to the dangers of infidelity; only you two know what is going on, but don’t give control over to outsiders. If you do, they will continue to disrespect your relationship. Make the necessary corrections.
So, that said, my prayers are for you to achieve every good thing and that I never again see from you that profound sadness I saw during your show’s first season. Whatever we allow others to do to us is only what we allow. It is not easy–it is close to impossible–to protect ourselves against others inhumanity, but it is imperative that we try. Please remember that. Along with your professional power, keep your self-will.
In this world of heterosexual prejudice, we must remain on guard against our own weaknesses and the tendency of others to take advantage of those weaknesses. No matter how much worldly success we achieve, our personal success can allude us. Likewise, there are those who might seem to have very little and who live secure in their psyches. Most people however are failures in both areas.
As with risk factors in health, the more oppressed group memberships one has, the more work one must expend to achieve psychic health. You are probably not as gullible as you play at being. Some people are involved in movements that I have seen do damage to others. I pray that you are wary of glittery-appearing quagmires.
I hoped the blurbs that you were “insisting” that Portia have a baby were not true. The prop, publicity, toy babies populating Hollywood are a sad statement about that culture. Children are not pr projects any more than are relationships. With or without lots of money, children are a lifetime responsibility. Those of us who are devoted to our mothers, know this. They have been devoted to us.
My mother is 106 years old-and-young and she is the light of my life. I am a mama’s girl also, so I understand your devotion to your mother. And to tell the truth, your mother is lovely! With Betty DeGeneres as your mother, of course you are as you are–superb!
God’s Blessings to you Ellen.
Your Friend,
Elsie
katrina said
hello ellen i just want to drop you a line i wish you all the hapines and take caer .god bless you and you love..
Scout said
From an astrological standpoint the two are compatible but Portia is an opportunist, she is very ambitious and she will stay with Ellen to help her career but she will eventually leave Ellen, though not nessesarily for a man. Ellen is too fickle, she has a hard angle between the love planet Venus and the planet of instability, Uranus. She will always be on the lookout for potential lovers, even if she is currently “in love”
So, this is Hollywood! Do you really think Portia at 33 is going to be with Ellen who is 48, in 20 years? NOT!!!
Pamela said
I agree, there is no way they are staying together for any length of time but that is the price you pay for being RICH and fAMOUS…..BORING!!!!!!!!
Portia looks like a frigging DRAG QUEEN! She wears too much make-up, she looks fake! Her name is fake PORTIA? PUHHHHLEEEASE! Alexandra Hedison was so much nicer!!
Heidi said
Actually I’m jealous with Ellen,she has a braveness to b a real lesbian,& she got a ‘great’ girlfriend.I just imagine if I’re someone else,just like Ellen,& I’re livin entertain world.I’m an Asian,med fac student..that my life just far from lesbian life,furtheremore..my dad wants me to followin his way to b an obgyn..so..if I live as lesbian openly,how about my career?!..I think there’s no normal woman wanna b touched with a lesb dr,though I do as professional…Huuhh…it’s confusin my life.Btw…I’m not sure to b a lesbian too,just as Ellen’s life..she always frighten to be left by her partner,I’m not sure if they’ll live hapily eva after.If Ellen gettin older,no power to hav some fun with her hot young partner..so..I guess,her partner’ll just leave her for other woman.So…I think it’s better for u to adopt children sooner,or maybe get partner with not too far different age.I think I’ll watch & learn more abt lesbian life & future b4 I decide to seriously run in’this’ way..so..I’ll followin the progression of Ellen & Portia’s life =) …Any suggestion or advice?..send me mails on de_two_souls@yahoo.com..Btw…congratulations Ellen..u hav a great life!
Denise said
ELLEN, I hope she dosent leave but if she does, give me a call! xox
Tammi said
Ellen,
You cannot worry about “what if’s” if its going to happen, then it’s going to happen. Your a great entertainer with a huge sense of humour and thats what makes you the wonderful person that you are.
Your str8 male friends would not consider that, if they are TRULY your FRIENDS and if they can take her from you or any other man for that fact, then you truly did not have her anyway. Be positive and GIRL…….YOU HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO WORRY ABOUT. One day you will have that right woman.Much respect for you Ellen for your openess.
ap3 said
I wish Ellen and Portia well. However, they did each leave their previous (serious) girlfriends to be together… sometimes what goes around comes around. I don’t wish that on them, but it is the Hollywood way.
Nicole said
Ellen do not give up on true love. I think you and Portia belong together, I can see it when you two look at each other, the way you connect. I Wish You All The Best and I hope you will be together for a long time; and just because Portia is very very beautiful means that she will leave you for a guy, you are an amazing person.
PAMELA A. HUNT said
ELLEN – I KNOW IT’S HARD NOT TO WORRY BUT LIFE IS TO SHORT AND ENJOY EACH AND EVERY MOMENT TOGETHER. GLAD TO HERE YOU TWO ARE OK AFTER THE ACCIDENT. WHEN I SEE YOU TWO TOGETHER IT MAKES ME SMILE . I RECENTLY LOST MY PARTNER TO CF AND SOMETIMES WITHOUT HER HERE IS VERY DIFFICULT. I WANT TO TELL YOU ELLEN THAT YOUR SHOW IS THE GREATEST AND GETS ME THRU SOME HARD DAYS WITHOUT HER TO TALK TO. MY SISTER [THAT LIVES OUT IN LOSANGELES ] AND I CAME TO YOUR SHOW TWO YEARS AGO HAD THE BEST TIME. THANKS SO MUCH FOR ALL THAT YOU DO.
Dee said
ellen I don’t think you have anything to worry about love is a strong force and if portia loves you then she will be with you for life..You are so real and down to earth and I love to watch your movies and t.v. show you make me smile and I would love to have you for a friend,,but I know everyone says that but don’t be afraid because you can tell you both are happy with each other..A fan of Ellen forever…
Piglet said
Ellen, If Portia leaves you then I will be waiting in the wings…You are the epitomy of a beautiful, compatible partner and I am married to a man! I have admired you from afar since your hilarious movie, “Mr. Wrong”…….
Anonymous said
Dear Ellen and Portia,
if you need a cool lesbian couple to hang out with, call us!
We are not as glam like you two, but we have similar interests. I too just got a horse for my partner – so we can ride our two horses together into the sunset. We have a nice life here in Canada, and if you ever need to get away from the US paparazzi and turmoil, come and hide out here in our quiet little town in BC.
P.S. Getting married as a gay couple is legal in Canada!
K & L from Canada
max said
if Portia does not want her, i do
max said
only problem is that im from other country, and wery far
Cherry said
Ellen,
You are naturally beautiful. Your humor is great. Keep it up.
Cherry
Anu said
Dear Ellen,
Since the day I came to know you I started to like you, not because you are famouse but just because of the love you have. you are one of the greatest people I have ever come a cross. I m gay I do have a girlfriend, she is 12 years elder to me but we are very much in love with eachother, but the worst thing is she lives in England and I live in New York she is 41 and I’M 28, I m sure age is not a problem to love someone if your heart is pure. I just want to let you know that I appreciate you soo much and like to you the way you are and for who you are. Take care always.
Love,
Anu.
Anu said
Dear Ellen,
Since the day I came to know you I started to like you, not because you are famouse but just because of the love you have. you are one of the greatest people I have ever come a cross. I m gay I do have a girlfriend, she is 12 years elder to me but we are very much in love with eachother, but the worst thing is she lives in England and I live in New York she is 41 and I’M 28, I m sure age is not a problem to love someone if your heart is pure. I just want to let you know that I appreciate you soo much and like to you the way you are and for who you are. Take care always.
Love,
Anu.
sonic youth said
alright this is funny , ellen is scared that portia de rossi is gonna leave her..well first of all please dont be worried because i think she loves the ladies and second of allIf she does leave you for that annoying guy from entourage awful show by the way then portia is’nt being true to herself and there for if she’s not true to herself she aint gonna be true to you….well i know nothing about these twos life…or the fact 95% of all the gossip news is bullshit in hollywood …but ellen relax she’s all yours just understand theres alot poeple that wish they could have her but all they can do is wish right….PEACE
nell said
maybe portia may leave her for another girl. what goes around comes around
liz said
Ellen, if Portia leaves you then l’ll have you trouble is l live in England.!
Jokeing aside l am sure it won’t happen l can tell just by looking @ photos and videos of you both that shes in love with you, like alot of people are me included.
I hope that you are together for a long time.
You’re beautiful and l would love to have you as a friend.
You’re loving fan liz x
mel said
i ain’t surprised if portia leaves ellen anytime.. She cud be realli in love wid ellen or she’s juz doing it for fame.. ellen’s juz way heaps popular now.. and i really really hope their love wud last long.. But if it turns sour; i juz hope so much that ellen will be able to pick up herself .. Stay strong always ellen.. And portia; do appreciate ellen.. b4 it’s too late.
Lovely said
I Really admire Ellen & Portia as a couple,they look good & happy together.I hope & pray they will be together.
Jessica said
I know that Portia will never leave Ellens side she loves her to much and I think that Portia will always be true to Ellen and Portia would never do anything to hurt ellen all Portia would do to ellen is love her.Like she has been all these years.Ellen and Portia are very much in love and they always will be in love.Ellen I love you and Portia Ellen thank you for giving me the stragth to come out to my Mom about me being gay thank you.
Love Jessica.
moi said
CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anonymous said
ellen is a beautiful woman and deserves only the best and right now she has the best, portia is clearly her true love. as for portia i really hope you are not planning to do the same thing to ellen as anne did and you two make a fabulous couple so please portia dont leave ellen for a man she really loves you although i dont think this whole thing is true anyway. portia you are a very attractive woman and i know you are in love with ellen just look at all of your pictures together, i havent seen so much love in anyones eyes in a long time so follow your heart not what anyone else tells you. WISH YOU BOTH LUCK AND HOPE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ONLY ENDS IN HAPPINESS CUZ YOU LOOK GREAT TOGETHER!!!!
safety said
i really think ellen and portia are very unrealistic ….ellen has a huge ego built around unstability …and portia..( ie amanda )wants both fame and money …and will only play this game with ellen until she gets fed up with playing second fiddle to ellens neurosis – because portia is only acting- as the rich life suits her .. ellen needs a stronger partner mentally who is also softer and more mothering, and will be happy taking a back seat as ellen is getting too old and set in her ways ..
victoria said
portia was married in the 90’s to a man, and divorced in ‘99, then she was engaged to a woman when she hooked up with Ellen